tcp: attach SYNACK messages to request sockets instead of listener

If a listen backlog is very big (to avoid syncookies), then
the listener sk->sk_wmem_alloc is the main source of false
sharing, as we need to touch it twice per SYNACK re-transmit
and TX completion.

(One SYN packet takes listener lock once, but up to 6 SYNACK
are generated)

By attaching the skb to the request socket, we remove this
source of contention.

Tested:

 listen(fd, 10485760); // single listener (no SO_REUSEPORT)
 16 RX/TX queue NIC
 Sustain a SYNFLOOD attack of ~320,000 SYN per second,
 Sending ~1,400,000 SYNACK per second.
 Perf profiles now show listener spinlock being next bottleneck.

    20.29%  [kernel]  [k] queued_spin_lock_slowpath
    10.06%  [kernel]  [k] __inet_lookup_established
     5.12%  [kernel]  [k] reqsk_timer_handler
     3.22%  [kernel]  [k] get_next_timer_interrupt
     3.00%  [kernel]  [k] tcp_make_synack
     2.77%  [kernel]  [k] ipt_do_table
     2.70%  [kernel]  [k] run_timer_softirq
     2.50%  [kernel]  [k] ip_finish_output
     2.04%  [kernel]  [k] cascade

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/net/ipv4/tcp_fastopen.c b/net/ipv4/tcp_fastopen.c
index f69f436..410ac48 100644
--- a/net/ipv4/tcp_fastopen.c
+++ b/net/ipv4/tcp_fastopen.c
@@ -161,13 +161,13 @@
 	tp->snd_wnd = ntohs(tcp_hdr(skb)->window);
 
 	/* Activate the retrans timer so that SYNACK can be retransmitted.
-	 * The request socket is not added to the SYN table of the parent
+	 * The request socket is not added to the ehash
 	 * because it's been added to the accept queue directly.
 	 */
 	inet_csk_reset_xmit_timer(child, ICSK_TIME_RETRANS,
 				  TCP_TIMEOUT_INIT, TCP_RTO_MAX);
 
-	atomic_set(&req->rsk_refcnt, 1);
+	atomic_set(&req->rsk_refcnt, 2);
 	/* Add the child socket directly into the accept queue */
 	inet_csk_reqsk_queue_add(sk, req, child);